First of all, I'm sobbing. This right here. All of it. Once I found them both (as you know, my birth mother had already died), it took a long time for the yearning to subside, to realize it was over, I learned all I could, no more what ifs. That part of search and reunion is rarely discussed. Anyway, there's no wrong choice. I'm happy to talk you through it should you decide to reach out to her. I just really love this.