My hot-girl fifties (especially important in Los Angeles) were permanently sidelined by the debilitating pain of ankylosing spondylitis. I have no idea what it is to be you today, but I know your perspective is spot on. I have found more grace, compassion, and empathy, and grist for the mill, since my body forced me to rest.

And FWIW, acupuncture and going gluten free has helped me.

You're a beautiful human, even if yours is a Dad-bod and not a Daddy-bod. Keep us posted. Rooting for you from afar. xo