Thank you so much for reading and responding. Frankly, adoption should never be a choice for infertility, or parental unpreparedness, it should be the last option for a child in need when staying with biological family (extended too) cannot step in. That it was too expensive and too religious doesn't surprise me, it's a $14 BILLION industry, dominated by Evangelical agencies. Imagine if that money and effort went to helping families stay intact. I'm sorry for your loss, infertility can be devastating and I hope you have love and support. Again, thank you so much for reading and responding.